The Gentle Barn
March 2018
When we first rescued her, we didn’t know Serenity was pregnant until we saw her tiny newborn on the ground soaking wet as she dried him, cleaned him, and encouraged him to stand for the first time. We stood at a short distance to celebrate with her and take part in this miracle of life and love. But the minute she realized that we were near, Serenity did something we would never have expected: she stepped over her baby, positioned herself on top of him, and looked at us with terror in her eyes begging us silently not to take him away from her.

This month we celebrated the seventh birthday of our cow Rumi. He lives
at our Sun Chlorella Healing Center with his mom, Serenity. We saved his mom
from slaughter and thank goodness we did because a few weeks later she gave
birth to her son, Rumi. That is when we learned that most dairy cows are
sent purposely pregnant to slaughter so that they weigh more, and therefore
bring in more money per pound.
Birth is a wonderful, joyous occasion at The Gentle Barn. We do not have
many as we do not breed animals, so we only have a birth when we have
rescued a pregnant mom. We didn’t know Serenity was pregnant until we saw
her tiny newborn on the ground soaking wet as she dried him, cleaned him,
and encouraged him to stand for the first time. We stood at a short distance
to celebrate with her and take part in this miracle of life and love. But
the minute she realized that we were near, Serenity did something we would
never have expected: she stepped over her baby, positioned herself on top of
him, and looked at us with terror in her eyes begging us silently not to
take him away from her. We immediately retreated so she would not feel
afraid, but her pleading eyes haunt me to this day. How many babies have
ripped away from her before we saved her?! How cruel was the dairy industry
to separate moms and babies and have them powerless to do anything about
it?! They want and love their babies as much as we do.
From then on, we gave Serenity and Rumi as much privacy as we possibly
could. When we had to clean their barn, we did not look at the baby, to seem
as non-threatening as possible, and we kept telling Serenity that she will
keep her son and they will be together for the rest of their lives. For the
first time in Serenity’s life, she got to raise a baby, nurse him, nurture
him, protect him, play with him, and watch him grow. They ate together,
relaxed together in the sun, and she bathed him with her tongue from head to
toe until his golden curls were sopping wet. Cows grow until they are five
years old, but by the time Rumi was three years old he was already much
taller than his mom. But Serenity still nursed him till he was four. Rumi
had to lie down to reach under her to her udders, but she patiently and
quietly stood still allowing him to drink his fill.
As the years passed Serenity realized that we were not going to take her son
away from her and she began to relax and trust us. She eventually even
allowed us to pet him and her. Now that Rumi is seven years old, he has his
friends and activities, but Serenity is never far away and is always
watching him as he moves about his day. After breakfast the two of them
still groom each other and lie next to each other meditating and chewing
their cud. As Serenity moves into old age and Rumi matures, we look forward
to watching their relationship change as he slowly starts taking care of
her. Serenity and Rumi - NursingWe are honored to have them both in our
barnyard, privileged to have given Serenity the gift of raising her last
baby, and blessed to use their story to remind people that animals have the
same feelings for their families as we do, and they deserve the same
protections, rights, and freedoms as we enjoy.
I believe with every fiber of my being that one day, in our lifetime, we
will have a gentle world in which all mommies everywhere will be able to
raise and love their babies, no matter what species they are. That all
babies will be raised with love, family, and safety, no matter what species
they are. And we will raise our children to value, respect, and revere life
in all its many wonderful forms. It’s a fantastic time to be alive, and I am
so excited to be a part of the movement towards kindness, compassion,
gentleness, and peace for all of us!
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