Oreo was pampered in every way, loved unconditionally and made an impression on everyone who was lucky enough to interact with. We love you Oreo and will forever hold you in our hearts.

Today, we are saying goodbye to our beloved cat, Oreo. He was recently
diagnosed with aggressive cancer when we discovered a tumor in his mouth. He
had some other health issues in early November, but this one can’t be
resolved. We have been showering him with love in the days leading up to
now.
Oreo was taken in by my mom many years ago. She loved to brag about him and
called him “Little Shit” in the most affectionate way. She believed that he
could become a support animal (we believe it too) because he has such a
wonderful demeanor. He never met a stranger, loved everyone and was loved by
them in return, and was constantly starved for affection. When I would visit
my mom, I would wake up to find him sitting on my chest staring at me,
waiting for a spoonful of wet food and some pets.
When my mom died in August of 2020, we knew it was the right decision to
bring him from Virginia to California. While we cared for my mom, we moved
him into the hotel room with us and he was starved for affection. At night,
we couldn’t have our hands on top of the blankets because he would
incessantly rub his face all over them. It was a long trip on the plane from
VA to CA, but he was a trooper. When we arrived with him in Napa, he
immediately inspected every corner of the house and back yard and realized
that his world had opened up in a big way. He now had a house with a yard,
two other cat playmates and three people who loved to dote on him daily.
Family and friends who came to visit would find a tuxedo cat in their lap
pretty quickly. He became more independent and wasn’t so starved for
affection because he was lavished with it.

There are some things that make him unique to me out of all of the cats that
I have ever had. He has the cutest way of chirping instead of meowing. He
loves to communicate through his chirps, especially when wet food is
involved. He uses all of his body to communicate as well and I have never
known a cat who was so good at using his front paws to do things. (For a
while, I was trying to see if he was left or right handed but I think he
used both equally.) Oreo has the LONGEST legs and loves to curl up in a ball
when he sleeps but his legs stick out of the ball because of the length.
When you pick up Oreo and put his front paws over your shoulder, he actually
grips onto your arm and shoulder like he is a child being carried. It is
like a wonderful warm and fuzzy hug.
One not so great habit is that he likes to spray even though he is neutered.
He would go into the backyard several times a day to do “his business” but
of course there were many times when he sprayed in the house. He preferred
to spray a beautiful (and expensive!) hand painted cabinet in the foyer on a
regular basis. He occasionally liked to use the bookcase in the living room
and other times, he just backed up on the couch or chair in the living room.
I personally never caught him in the act indoors. When he did it outside, he
would back up against a bush, potted plant or our lemongrass plant (!) and
once started would lift his back legs one at a time. Initially it was
strange behavior to me but later, I looked forward to his spray dance. I
never got mad when he sprayed in the house…I knew it was just his nature and
after all, he was marking the territory because he had a long-standing feud
with the neighbor’s cat (more on that later).
Laurence and Oreo began a bromance almost immediately. Laurence took him out
to the back yard in the early morning hours and I would often find Laurence
carrying Oreo around the house. Laurence bought a footrest for under his
desk in his office and Oreo took his mid-day naps there. Some mornings,
Laurence would find Oreo sleeping on his office chair when he awoke. Oreo
also had a bed in the corner of Laurence’s office and often took naps there
as well. Laurence even allowed Oreo to sleep on his pillow in bed! None of
our other cats are afforded such a luxury.
The neighbor’s cat would sometimes come into our back yard. Our other cats
seem to be okay with this and there were never fights, but Oreo and Manny
had a strong dislike and got into several tussles. This was incredibly
stressful to me and I am sure to the neighbors due to my screaming. We would
keep an eye out for Manny to make sure we could scare him off, but there
were several times when he got into the yard without us noticing and I was
screaming obscenities at the top of my lungs while trying to break up a
brawl. Oreo wanted to protect us from Manny. There were times too when Oreo
would get in a tussle with Neko, one of our other cats. He would chase her
and pin her down and she howled like she was being killed (drama queen). She
was the queen of the castle before Oreo came along and Neko often liked to
pick on Yuki (who also screamed like she was being murdered). When Oreo came
into our home and heard Yuki crying out because her and Neko were in a
tussle, he would rush to break things up. I always joked that he had a crush
on Yuki but I don’t think that the affection went both ways. They tolerated
each other but they never snuggled.
The final thing that I want to mention about his behavior is his desire for
“play time”. When he lived with my mom, he had a stuffed animal that he
liked to hump on a regular basis. Weird behavior for a neutered cat for
sure. When he moved with us, we bought a toy that had a fleece string on it
that he loved to have “play time” with. I did have the vet check to ensure
he was neutered, and he was, but he had a few behaviors that had me
believing that they may have missed something. When he had play time, this
was the only time that he let out big meows, especially if you tried to pull
the toy away. What a crazy cat!
We were so fortunate to have him in our lives for the year and a half since
my mom died and he was treated like the true king that he is. He was
pampered in every way, loved unconditionally and made an impression on
everyone who was lucky enough to interact with. We love you Oreo and will
forever hold you in our hearts.
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